Community Guidelines

Effective 5 October 2026 · Version 2026-10-05

Be real

• Use your real first name and age. You must be 18 or older.
• Your photos must be of you. Your main photo should clearly show your face.
• One person, one account. No fake, duplicate, shared or business profiles.
• Be honest about what you're looking for. It's how we match you with the right people.

Photos we don't approve

• Face not clearly visible, or heavily filtered so you're unrecognisable
• Photos of someone else, celebrities, stock images, cartoons or memes
• Nudity, underwear or swimwear as the main photo, or sexually suggestive poses
• Phone numbers, social media handles, QR codes, links or ads
• Group photos where we can't tell which one is you (as your main photo)
• Photos of children on their own
• Weapons, drugs, violence or hate symbols

Be respectful

• No harassment, threats, insults or repeated unwanted messages. If someone doesn't reply or unmatches, move on.
• No hate or discrimination based on religion, caste, community, region, language, skin colour, gender, sexual orientation, disability or anything else.
• No sexual messages or photos unless the other person has clearly and willingly agreed, and never share anyone's intimate images.
• Respect everyone's preferences and boundaries, including about family, religion and pace.

No money, no business

• Never ask for money, UPI payments, gifts, recharges, loans or investments, even as a joke.
• No selling, promoting, recruiting, crypto or trading "opportunities", escort or paid services.
• Don't push to move to WhatsApp or other apps straight away. That's a common scam pattern.

Never allowed, and reported to police where required

• Anyone under 18, or any content that sexualises minors
• Sharing intimate images without consent, sextortion or blackmail
• Threats of violence, stalking, or encouraging self-harm
• Fraud, impersonation and scams

Staying safe

While chatting

• Take your time. Keep chatting in Milanzo until you feel comfortable.
• Don't share your home address, workplace, financial details or OTPs.
• If anyone asks for money or UPI, it's a scam. Report them.
• Be careful if someone's story keeps changing, they avoid video calls, or they rush things.

Meeting in person

• Video call first to check they're who they say they are.
• Meet in a busy public place such as a café or mall, not at home or somewhere isolated.
• Tell a friend or family member where you're going and who you're meeting. Share your live location.
• Arrange your own transport, and stay in control of your drink and belongings.
• Leave whenever you feel uncomfortable. You don't owe anyone an explanation.

If something goes wrong

• In an emergency, call 112.
• Women's helpline: 181. Cyber crime helpline: 1930 or cybercrime.gov.in.
• Report the person in Milanzo using the ⋯ menu in your chat. Reporting also blocks them.

How we enforce these guidelines

• Every photo is reviewed before others can see it.
• Profiles that are reported by several people, or reported for scams or being underage, are hidden while our team reviews them.
• Depending on what happened, we may reject a photo, suspend your profile until you fix it, or ban your account permanently.
• Think we got it wrong? Contact our Grievance Officer.